Yes, being in a relationship will show you all the issues that you have. But once it comes out that you have issues, they aren’t for your partner to fix, they are for you to fix. Realize you have anger issues? Work it out, don’t take it out in your partner. Realize you have trust issues? Work it out, don’t burden your partner with that. Realize you have insecurities? Work on your self esteem, don’t expect your partner to validate your existence.
Your commitment to your partner is also a commitment to work on yourself. They work on them, you work on you, and you both come together committed to giving your best. And of course, things happen. Sometimes your best also includes mess. But the important thing is to not make it a habit that the person you’re with is someone you use to heal you. That’s not right.
In a movie when a man looks lovingly at a woman with visible emotion on his face that’s gay subtext bc everyone knows straight men aren’t capable of that so that man is automatically bisexual
i know its unlikely bc sandra is hosting but i really would self-amputate a limb to have her and jodie pull a david duchovny and gillian anderson at the 1996 golden globes and be each other’s dates
NEVER DOUBT YOURSELF SOMETIMES THE UNIVERSE GIVES YOU EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT
